He met his first girlfriend at his job. Spent so much time, he fell hard. A couple years later, he came back to that job and met me. I'm proud that he just got a job but should I be worried? Should or shouldn't.. I am. If you spend a lot of time with someone, you're bound to feel something. He's the kind of guy that confides in the girl he wants. Denial or not, last year that was carol. I have reason to be scared. Will I be enough? Have I ever been?